When I read some time
ago, that 19 rape cases were reported last month in Haryana alone, I felt
ashamed of the society in which we are living. On one hand we talk of education,
liberalisation, economic reforms, globalisation, peace, etc. etc. etc. and so
many other ornamental words, and on the other hand we are not able to bring
humans living in this so called” civilized society” to the level of humanity. This
economic progress, technological innovation etc doesn’t have any meaning at all
till the time everyone in the society; irrespective of being male or female, can’t
feel safe and live without any fear.
As I researched more
about the happenings in Haryana, several stupid things came up. I was amazed
and distressed at the same time when I came to know that an issue of such
sensitivity is being tackled by a mob of some ignorant and stupid old bastards
who call themselves as “Khap Panchayat”. I don’t see any good reason why such
people are even allowed to take decision on such issues. And the solution with
which they came up was not at all surprising according to their meagre
intellectual ability and respect for women. These so called “Caretakers of
Society” decided that the marriage age of girls should be reduced to 15-16
years to avoid rapes. What a thought provokingly shameful thought process! The only
meaning of such kind of decision is that now girls will be forced into a painful
combination of rape and child marriage. With this decision are they trying to
promote their narrow mentality that sex is the sole purpose of marriage or have
they tried to turn rape as legal activity by thinking about child marriage? If they
will ask these questions from themselves, I don’t doubt that they will bow their
head with shame.
What else they are trying
to solve with this solution, because this decision is not at all a solution for
this problem. The most anguishing fact is that former chief minister of Haryana;
Mr Om Prakash Chautala also confidently supported this decision. But I don’t want
to blame him (sarcastically). For persons like him and members of “Khap
Panchayats”, it’s very easy to sound utter idiot and super confident at the
same time.
Whenever this issue of
rape is highlighted, girls are being blamed every time. Sometime it’s the provocative
clothing and this time it’s not getting married early. Isn't it insane and
completely illogical?
I just want to conclude
by saying that it’s high time since we are trying to avoid the responsibility
of erasing this monster named “rape” from our society by blaming customs,
culture, victims etc from time to time. Now the time has come to blame and
severely punish the actual responsible “Monsters” for breaking the law and
faith in civilization.